* Do we listen at work?
Not at the office, at all. But I work a lot at home and I always have music on at home, unless the wife is also there. After 6, she prefers the TV news and then more tube through the night.
* Do we bring CDs into the car anymore (mine always get trashed that way).
I always have one in the car, but more often listen to the radio---WEEI sports--as Nelly is familiar with.
* At home, is there music playing all the time? Do we still have single-CD players, or do we have those 500-disc changers. Or have we abandoned the silver altogether and again, plugged in harddrives or iPods into the players. Do we have small systems in dens and studies, or is it all in the living room?
As earlier posted, I ripped thousands of CD's to my hard drive (and a backup hard drive). I listen to music over my computer with Bose speakers. I also watch TV on the same computer.
* Do we listen by the seat of our pants or plan? I've read about people making "getting dressed playlists" or others for dinners, parties, etc. If so are they on an iPod, or other programs I'm not even aware of? How about random shuffle? While it's kind of fun because you sometimes forget what you have, I just can't get into it. Knowing what comes next is somehow important to me. (more on this topic later).
I never random shuffle, and I'm still partial to album playlists, but the way my system is set up allows wild flexibility when I'm in the mood. I can go from "Spirit In The Sky" to "Sway" to "Your Cheatin' Heart" to "No Woman, No Cry" with an ease no one with CD's can.
* Do we even have component stereos anymore ie amp, CD player, and speakers? You can't seem to find them anymore, much less get them repaired, or do we have surround systems that serve both TV and audio?
I moved my component system with its dinosaur huge speakers to a back room. It still sounds great, but I don't use it much anymore. I still have two turntables ( but not a microphone

) and at least a thousand LP's.
* What about our spouses? Do we curb our listening around them? At my house, my wife often says "this [music] is not relaxing to me" as if I put it on to "relax" her. For the first few years of my marriage I would say, "But honey, Iggy rules" but it came off just the same. Now we have clearly estabilshed boundaries as to what's acceptable to her, and it's about 5% of my collection, if that.
My wife shares 90% of my tastes and I about the same amount with her. Stereotypically however, I am partial to the louder/faster/harder stuff later in the day than is she.
* Music management. With about 2,000 pieces I suspect I have a medium to fairly-large collection for an ROer. Still, with new stuff coming in all the time I can't keep track of what I've got, or what I wanted to listen to yesterday. I have a couple of dozen "security albums" I've loved all my life, but I always say to myself I must listen to this or that, but I never get around to it, largely because of the spouse situation.
I have my complete collection on my hard drive, fully backed up on a 999 GB Maxtor hard drive--maybe 8x8x3 inches. I usually play it on winamp and this keeps things VERY organized.
* Where do we store our collections? Living room, or in boxes in the basement? Mine take up three walls of the study, my wife's one concession to my "obsession." (Cheap shot, huh? Her "obsession" - horses - costs tens of thousands of dollars as opposed to mine which is largely free, yet she somehow gives the shit rather than gets it. )
I moved my CD's to the basement.