sirmoonie wrote on Jul 17^th, 2008 at 5:35pm:



You do not have drinking problem, you have a drinking solution.

The Wick wrote on Jul 16^th, 2008 at 8:16pm:



true on both points....
and Wick, at the risk of seeming a judgemental bitch, why DO these women put up with this shit..
it's easy to romanticize the rocker and rock chick romance, but the reality is that alot of these women are so passive and accept them for what they are..in spite of their own self-respect or lack thereof.
i had an argument once with a friend who marveled and awed the girlfriend of someone who 'put up with him no matter what...because she LOVES him....' that's co-dependency to me.
i was like, 'are you crazy?'

texile wrote on Jul 17^th, 2008 at 8:46pm:


Well that's the crux of the matter isn't it. If women just stood up for themselves more, it might change things. This crap is romanticized because it's men who make the judgements and paint the romantic picture. That's why a woman, whether she's a rocker or not, is a slut if she does this stuff, but a guy is a bonafide rocker who had a fling and is just being rock and roll or some cliched shit like that. He's an embarrassment to his family, anyone believing otherwise is as delusional as he is.