Sioux wrote on Feb 18
th, 2012 at 9:46am:
From the media's standpoint, it certainly seems like they do nothing to discourage, and they even glorify, the problems, addictions, and run-in's with the law just to keep those headlines coming. I don't know how much family members and friends can do for someone who keeps falling back into their old ways. It's really up to the person involved to make the change---and I know it must not be easy! Not by any means....and maybe it has to do with that person's "makeup". I thought people like Robert Downey Jr. were well on that path to tragedy, but he seems to be doing well now. And I know there are others.....but that will to live, and be "clean" has to come from the person him/herself.
Right on Sioux, if the person doesn't want to stop, there's nothing in the world that can help, they can go to the best rehab centers around, & if they don't want to stop, it will only be temporary that their Sober/ Clean & they go back to it again, in my case I've been sober over 3 years, I had such a mental obsession for that I just couldn't stay stopped, in my case it was booze, I was drinking almost a 24 Beer a day, I couldn't drink liquor any more, I would get so violently sick, I would throw up for 2 days & nights, nothing but cold water because I was so dry coming of booze it was like I was in a desert dying of thirst, the only thing I could drink was Beer, & then something just came over me over 3 years ago, I call it a spiritual awakening, & my compulsion for drinking was taken away, & the longer I'm sober the more thankful I am that it happened.
There I said my piece, I don't usually share like that, only for another person who's going through the same thing & wants to stop.