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Message started by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:20pm

Title: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:20pm
I'm in shock! Gazza and Paul informed me that our very good friend and one of the very first Rocks Off members has passed away

Rest in Peace Tom Layhue aka TomL aka Willie Dixon aka Sai Wong



Here with Gazza



here with Nanky



Here Tom, SharpE and me


Title: Re: The rock related Obituary Thread
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:26pm
Here having a gooooood time with Tom!

https://youtu.be/Iz__t3e66Eg?feature=shared

Title: Re: The rock related Obituary Thread
Post by Gazza on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:34pm
Shattering news. Tom was one of the first friends I ever made online - back in the pre-Rocks Off era when we used to post on the Stones' official message board during the Bridges to Babylon tour.

He literally was the life and soul of EVERY party and one of the funniest, most irreverent people you'll ever meet. 

18 years later I still burst out laughing at that 'Sai Wong' fake ID stunt he pulled to get into the Beacon Theatre show.


RIP my friend

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:53pm
I split this part from the obituary thread, Tom deserves one separate, an exclusive thread.

He was one of us since the early days, well, before Rocks Off was even conceived

He was a very good friend, he even stayed at my home for almost one week in 2006

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 14th, 2024 at 8:36pm
Here a very young Tom, with mom and brother... a fan since the early years


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Starbuck on Apr 14th, 2024 at 10:08pm
Shocking news indeed. I got to meet Tom and hang out in Pammy's backyard and at Chess studios back in 2005ish before a show at Soldier Field. Seemed like he was there whenever there was a gathering or summit.

My best to Nanky, LJ and the rest of you that were close.


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Goo on Apr 15th, 2024 at 3:48am
RIP

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Egon on Apr 15th, 2024 at 4:41am
Jini informed me yesterday that things didn't look good,
such sad news.

Always wanted to meet him, it was something on the to-do list.

It shall now have to remain there...

RIP Tom


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Irina on Apr 15th, 2024 at 6:05am
So sad news....
   RIP Tom

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by nankerphelge on Apr 15th, 2024 at 6:30am
Absolutely gutted.  We met right here on RO.  We got together for "a" beer, and the rest was history.  My brother in the truest sense of the word.  First one to the party - last to leave.  Man loved life.  I will miss him so.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Joey on Apr 15th, 2024 at 7:04am




<  ------------- RIP TomL  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   



We got the news from Paula Yesterday !!!!!!!!!!!!!



Very Sad. Tom and Myself even shared the same Birthday   ---  August 1st.   

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Paranoid Android on Apr 15th, 2024 at 7:06am
I am going to miss that lunatic!
Tom was one of the nicest, genuinely FUNNY bastards I have ever met.

We met at one of the annual Shidoobee Brunches in Georgetown DC
that StonesDoug hosts every year.
Been drunking and Stoning together ever since whenever we were in the same vicinity.

RIP Sai Wong
Thank you for the awesome memories.


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by LadyJane on Apr 15th, 2024 at 7:29am
I never had a sibling, but I had a Brother. He left this world yesterday & takes with him a part of me. Thank you dearest Tom for all the love & support & laughs & goid natured teasing. There will never be another like you. Your laugh will live in my memory forever. Rest now my sweet friend. Until we meet again ❌️⭕️ LJ aka FF of Assisi aka the RHW from Buffalo.


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Saintofme on Apr 15th, 2024 at 8:23am
Had to pop in here to pay my respects to the larger than life persona we all knew as Tom L aka Sai Wong aka Willie Dixon aka Great Guy!  Loved by all, he will never be forgotten.  Raise a glass to Tom L!

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Paranoid Android on Apr 15th, 2024 at 9:24am
[quote author=163B3E23103B343F5A0 link=1713140437/12#12 date=1713184188]the RHW from Buffalo.

Always makes me laugh!!

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Lahue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Pdog on Apr 15th, 2024 at 11:36am
Such a nice dude. I forgot about the beacon show story.
May we all find comfort in the happy memories we’ve shared.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 15th, 2024 at 12:15pm
Here with Jini (SweetVirginia), the picture of his character "Sai Wong"

Beacon Theatre, NYC


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by SweetVirginia on Apr 15th, 2024 at 12:50pm
I am absolutely broken hearted. He was the most fun, unique, raunchy, and hilarious person. I found this poem he did about all of us in 2007. I can hear his voice....

Mister President, Mister Immigration Man,
Let me in, sweetie, to your fair land.
I'm Tampa bound and Memphis too,
Short Fat Fanny is on the loose.
Dig that sound on the radio,
Then slip it right across to that fuck face in Buffalo.
Nanky and TomL in ole D.C.,
Well they're gonna hold some shit for me.
Wham Bam Alaaaabam.. that fucker in Chicago don't give a Dam... flip flop cash a check and run out...
that mother fuckin tele done blown his top.
Well sure Bellied Voodoo is on the loose, talking into his shoe man what is worse.....
Fuck You Gazza is all he can say. GTRM is on the way.
SV will save the day, If PDM can make her way....
Joey's gonna have a Woodie all day...left over thongs man all the way......
Oh Yea......Oh Yea...............
Stones are p-laying at Constitution Hall That fucking StonesDoug has gone off the wall..
I hear Shattered coming down the B, OldKR has gone astray..
Mattman running through the crowd..
Looking for CC he's in a cloud......
Thank God Keith's driving the limo tonight, Salt of the earth man that's right.........

Oh Yea.......Oh Yea.....

At Giants Stadium everything was keen..
Jesus took me into his van man with a gleam..
We came out smiling all and all...
Yeager was flowing very tall........
Moose came over and lit another..
Rich was BBQ-ing like a mother.......

Yea....Oh Yea...........

Glencars watch-in planes all day...
Mr. Lawyer in Floor...a...da... makes em pay....
Ole Max Lugar in New York......
He's got that Couch man what a start....
Come on C10, Joey please don't fart....
And We are going through the day .-..
Fuck You Gazza , Will ya... anyway....

Yea....Oh Yea................

Well Pdog we allllll hope someday.....That the Boys come.. back and play
They will light our ass's tonight, Like Nanky with a sheep man it's alright..
We know there getting old, but who would play She's So Cold.....
We all want a spring tour in one way...
Hey GJ I'm coming to stay.....

Oh Yea....Oh Yea(Horns going fucking wild)

Boomy...Boomy....Boomy man,,thanks 4 the kudos's.... I understand...
You should of been in Albany that night, when that fucking chick hurled pizza with fright...
That fucking shit hit me in the arm...
Gimmielildrink was laughing so strong...look at me man.... not my tits.....
While GJ was laying on the floor.......I couldn't fucking take no more...

Yea...Oh Yea.......

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 15th, 2024 at 1:08pm

SweetVirginia wrote on Apr 15th, 2024 at 12:50pm:
Well sure Bellied Voodoo is on the loose, talking into his shoe man what is worse.....


;D ;D ;D ;D Thanks Jini, as you say I'm listenig his voice while I'm reading too

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 15th, 2024 at 1:34pm
Official Obituary of
Thomas Layhue Jr.
August 1, 1958 ~ April 14, 2024 (age 65)


https://www.willigfuneralcremationservices.com/obituary/Thomas-LayhueJr

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by FotiniD on Apr 15th, 2024 at 4:24pm
Such sad news.
RIP Tom.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by parmeda on Apr 15th, 2024 at 9:16pm
Such a huge loss.  Such a great guy…crazy as fuck, he had no filter whatsoever, but that’s what made you love him. 
Every call, or every text would begin with “Hi honey, how are ya?”.  And they would end with “Fuck you, you Chicago cunt!”, in that raspy cackle of his.  God love him.

I know Paula and Nanky have been thrown the hardest blow over this.  I have some great memories of being with all of them watching Tom, just be Tom.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by leonid on Apr 16th, 2024 at 1:07am
The Sai Wong shenanigans were some of the most hilarious things I’ve ever read on here. RIP TomL

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Fabio Hot Stuff on Apr 16th, 2024 at 4:30am
I never met him although we wrote to each other a few times, but I know for sure he was one of the most beauty and crazy in our community
condolience to his family
Fabio

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by LadyJane on Apr 16th, 2024 at 8:42am

parmeda wrote on Apr 15th, 2024 at 9:16pm:
Such a huge loss.  Such a great guy…crazy as fuck, he had no filter whatsoever, but that’s what made you love him. 
Every call, or every text would begin with “Hi honey, how are ya?”.  And they would end with “Fuck you, you Chicago cunt!”, in that raspy cackle of his.  God love him.

I know Paula and Nanky have been thrown the hardest blow over this.  I have some great memories of being with all of them watching Tom, just be Tom.


Our trips to Chicago in 2005 and 2006 were epic!
Your BBQ, Chess studios, The Voodoopugs show, the Boardroom, the great Tele caper, Kitty O'Sheas's pub inside the Chicago Hilton, Morton's to celebrate Boomy's 21st birthday and of course 2 Stones shows.
Outstanding memories and such good laughs.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Maxmeister on Apr 16th, 2024 at 7:09pm
I got a call today giving me the terrible news. I had no idea that he was sick the past couple of years. The last few years we had contact with just a few texts and Christmas cards. Now I remember not getting one last year.
Reflecting on so many Stones concerts, meet and greets, and all those long weekends in Virginia. Wow, he was the nicest, craziest, fun loving person and of course the ultimate Stones fanatic.
Cindy and I want to express our condolences to his family, friends, and the ton of his Stones friends with special thoughts to Al and Paula.
In his honor I’m wearing a t shirt he had made with a quote he liked to use in the most positive way possible….Fuck you you fuckin’ fuck.
RIP Tom. We will raise a 🥃 to you many times in the coming days.

Rick and Cindy




Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 16th, 2024 at 8:40pm
https://rocksoff.org/headers2024/j4-rick-toml.jpeg
In memory of Tom Layhue (TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon)
With Rick (Maxmeister) © NFI but thanks!r!

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 16th, 2024 at 8:41pm
https://rocksoff.org/headers2024/j4-toml-jini.jpg
In memory of Tom Layhue (TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon)
With Jini telling the truth to the world © Don't remember!

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Moonisup on Apr 17th, 2024 at 12:34am
Great, funny Guy, judging by his posts and stories here

Gone way too soon.

RIP and sending hugs to all his friends and family

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by lotsajizz on Apr 17th, 2024 at 9:27am
RIP, too young...



Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Tom on Apr 17th, 2024 at 11:11am
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Tom, he was the funniest fan all over, he will be deeply missed

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Paranoid Android on Apr 17th, 2024 at 2:59pm
Paris' Pee-Pee weeps for him

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by CS on Apr 17th, 2024 at 3:09pm
RIP TomL, shocking news

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 17th, 2024 at 5:51pm
Liesten you B&B! Please don't die before me, it is terrible to say goodbye to so many friends here, there and everywhere

:willya

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 17th, 2024 at 6:39pm

Voodoo Chile in Wonderland wrote on Apr 14th, 2024 at 7:26pm:
Here having a gooooood time with Tom!

https://youtu.be/Iz__t3e66Eg?feature=shared


Rip Brother... Today I watched this video for the first time since I uploaded it. What a week we had! I 'm gonna miss you my friend, always.

There are fans who know a lot, there are fans attending all shows, but there just a few fans that are a full-time Rolling Stone in its essence, that is you. Be you, be Tom, rest easy.



Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by GLD on Apr 17th, 2024 at 6:45pm
SO many TomL stories, laughs and memories. I will miss you forever my friend, thanks for including me in the poem (and thanks, Jini, for posting it). My love to Paula & Al and to all who knew and loved that crazy, wonderful Fucker. The $3 sports coat for a FL Ronnie art show bought at a yard sale, sleeping under sinks, inventing the Milhous Whore, The Doctor is IN, SWHOW, tadpole fountains and (special!) free egg roles (act now!!), the answer to "why 71?" on the t-shirt sleeve "it's 69 plus 2", creating the infamous Shocker Sisters, "Some Girls" at WW appearance, and sometimes just a beer and a laugh from outta left field would lift the party to newer heights. Things are a little less bright right now here on Earth but Heaven is lit & rocking, of that I am sure.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 17th, 2024 at 9:10pm
Where's TomL's finger?  ;D


https://rocksoff.org/headers2024/j4-moonie-fpm-toml-nanky.jpg
In memory of Tom Layhue (TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon)
With Sir Moonie, Fleabit Peanut Monkey, and Nanky © NFI but thanks!r!

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 18th, 2024 at 9:53pm
Classic movies always have a second part


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by sweetcharmedlife on Apr 20th, 2024 at 9:50pm
So sad to hear about this. Always such a fun guy. He will be greatly missed!  :Youmakeagrownmancrylikejoey

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 21st, 2024 at 8:56pm
Pix by Paul (Paranoid Android)

This with TomL, Zip Code Rayleigh, NC



Here TomL, Mrs. Android (Julie), and Nanky in Buffalo





Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Holden on Apr 22nd, 2024 at 10:59am
I never knew Tom, but I've been on this board for years and always loved reading about his shenanigans. I remember thong pics. Rest in Peace. The stones lost a good one.

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Voodoo Chile in Wonderland on Apr 28th, 2024 at 12:24pm
Today's header and tonight's show for him

http://www.rocksoff.org/headers2024/j4-houston12.jpg
Tonight's show in memory of TomL © With very special thanks to Jini (SweetVirginia)

Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by Poplar on Apr 28th, 2024 at 5:17pm
Sad news. Condolences to family and friends.


Title: Re: RIP our friend Tom Layhue aka TomL, Sai Wong, Willie Dixon
Post by eric on May 2nd, 2024 at 7:20am
My condolences to Tom's family.  Met him briefly at the 2004 MSG show.  I know Nanky has lost a close friend.  All the best to the memories you both shared.

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